It is actually not the easiest thing to achieve.
Should be natural though.
It is the same with loving yourself before waiting or expecting that others will love you first or more than you do.
I think things start from here.
I had to add this definition from answers.com of the word "yourself".
pron.
That one identical with you: Used reflexively as the direct or indirect object of a verb or as the object of a preposition: Did you buy yourself a gift? very acurrate now :)
Your normal or healthy condition: Are you feeling yourself again?
ARE YOU FEELING YOURSELF AGAIN?
What do you say?
